Virginity, Virginity and Hymen

Virgin and virgin literally means men and women who have had sex until penetration. But there is also a judge the man who had been a discharge of sperm means no virgin. Women who had torn her hymen means not a virgin anymore. It is often disastrous for a young couple who are less wise in react.

Virginity itself could mean a positive, but it can also be negative for the people or society. In the West, for example, a man or woman who has not had sex after puberty, will feel he is not normal.

In certain communities, men and women are required to keep virginitasnya get up to the altar. However, most are required to keep virginitasnya is by women, including in Indonesia.

Proof of virginity is usually indicated by the presence of blood stains on the bed sheets after the first night. Even in certain societies, stained bed linen must be hung in a window as evidence for the presence of the whole community.

The problem is not every woman's blood shed on the first night, even though she was a virgin in the sense of never before having sex. There are women who do not have a hymen since birth, there is a loss of the hymen without realizing it while falling or sports, and some are so thin that her hymen was not torn as bloodletting and painless.

The hymen itself is located at the mouth of the vagina and does not close completely. Because it forms the hymen varies so greatly from one woman to another, depending on the form of the hole. The hole is needed as a way out of menstrual blood.

Many young couples who think as long as no penetration, definitely not pregnant. And sperm can walk, even run, entering a hole in the hymen. So while still a virgin, she can still get pregnant if no sperm around the vagina. The hymen is not a pessary.

In addition to the form, the elasticity of the hymen is also very different. There is a very thin and easily torn, there is a very thick and elastic so it is not easily torn. In some women, her hymen was found intact when she would give birth to her first child, so doctors have ripped the baby can get out easily.

Virginity is often a double-edged problem and more in favor of men. On the one hand, he is driven to prove prowess and tend to get compliments when losing his virginity.

On the other hand, women are required to keep her virginity and tend to ridicule if it fails to defend it. The question, then to whom the virgin release virginitasnya